Being a 20 year old woman in college, the topic of sexual
violence and rape culture in society is constantly spoken about, whether it be
in conversations between my mother and I or talks I have with my friends whose
experiences are similar to mine. We are always told, “walk in groups” and “don’t
walk around at night” and the classic, “when you go to a party don’t take a
drink from anyone, you never know what is in there.” All of these phrases are extremely
frustrating, frightening, and exhausted every weekend as I get ready to spend
time with my friends or venture off campus. However, I have come to recognize
that the way I view sexual assault and violence comes from a strictly
heterosexual female perspective meaning it only happens to straight women by
straight men. At least that is how it is portrayed in the media and the way our
society as a whole focuses on the issue. But, it is important to ask what about
the individuals who are survivors and victims of sexual violence and who are
not heterosexual females? What about the LGBTQ members, men and women alike,
who do not conform to the sexual binary, that receive this abuse in a very real
and traumatizing way?
Sexual
violence is a large injustice facing the LGBTQ community that is often silenced
and swept under the rug because of society’s inability to recognize the dignity
of the members of this marginalized group. In the book Queer (In)Justice by Mogel, Ritchie, and Whitlock, the issue of
sexual violence in the LGBTQ community is analyzed specifically in regards to
the United States criminal justice system. The authors explain that, “sexual
violence is one of the principal weapons of policing and punishing perceived
sexual deviance and gender nonconformity on the outside… it’s wielded to an even
greater effect in the highly controlled and violent environment of modern
prisons.” LGBTQ members in prison are essentially punished for their
sexualities and are demonized in society and the structure of the prison system
by guards and other inmates. This is a result of these people not conforming to
traditional gender constructs thus making them much more susceptible to violent
sexual offenses such as rape and assault. These populations are targeted
specifically making the issue a queer issue rather than just an issue that is
faced only by heterosexual females. This not only occurs in prisons and causes
an injustice there, but in many places in the sector of life outside of the
justice system queer individuals face this threat as well.
In an
article titled, “This Happens: Sexual Assault Between Queer Women” by a lesbian
poet named Leah Horlick, she exposes that sexual violence is in fact a queer
issue demonstrates that many ignore it or do not think is valid. Horlick
bravely shares her story of sexual assault and how she was able to become a
survivor. The issue is an extreme injustice facing the community because, as
Horlick argues, it is extremely invalidated by society and victim blaming is
even more prevalent of a problem as non conforming genders and sexualities are
deemed as deserving of the abuse that they receive, especially if it is
same-sex perpetuated sexual violence. She explains, “Coming out as a survivor
of queer sexual violence was, and is, more difficult that I ever thought coming
out as a lesbian would be. I couldn’t find anyone else telling their story.
Where were our lesbian feminist foremothers? Where were Audre Lorde of Adrienne
Rich when I needed them?” This complex social justice issue continues to
perpetuate violence because of the invisibility LGBTQ community members have
when it comes to the public learning about the issue. Too often is sexual
violence viewed as a straight issue, when it should be viewed just as equally
as a queer issue.
After
understanding how violence occurs then among the LGBTQ community there are many
things that can be done to remedy the injustice. The first of course being that
society recognizes sexual violence as a queer issue that affects men and women
who are a part of the queer community. After this visibility can be achieved we as a society can combat the idea that not
only do heterosexual lives matter but homosexual and queer lives matter just as
much. More funding should also be put
into programs for all victims of sexual abuse so that they may be able to
receive similar support. In a Huffington Post article by two queer activists,
Sue Kerr and Ian Finkenbinder, they call upon the importance of funding
uniquely queer support resources for victims of sexual violence and abuse. They explain that, “we live in a society
where funding for anti-sexual-violence programs was almost derailed because of the inclusion of provisions for LGBTQ
survivors.” By acknowledging the issue and creating uniquely queer spaces of
outreach for these individuals the damages caused by these traumatic forms of
abuse can begin to heal. Although this all seems basic, currently in society
this is the level that we are standing on. Until sexual abuse is no longer just
a heterosexual issue many more will suffer at the hands of society demonizing
their sexuality. Programs should be funded and made to educate the community
about sexual violence, but specifically how it affects the LGBTQ members of
society. By mandating strict policies on educational curriculum in schools to
include the narratives of queer individuals in the lesson plan we can extend
what it means when we say “not anymore.”
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